Well, there can be another side to it to, one can think of it as a Princess kept in a tower. All by herself. Waiting for her prince charming to rescue her :P. But alas, I wouldn't let the Prince Charming to enter my house.
Anyways, there are some things I simply love about living alone:
1) I can keep my room as dirty as possible n there will be no one to bother me to clean up all the mess. The best part is that when I come back home in the evening everything would be in its place thanks to my Helper Bhaiya.
2) I can wake up and sleep at any time. At times I have the most atrocious sleep timings. I will sleep at 5p.m and wake up at 1 a.m. or I'll wake up 3 a.m. watch TV till 5 a.m then sleep again. Tell me would you have such freedom if you were sharing a room with someone?
3) I can do whatever I want to do. For e.g.-I can talk on the phone as much as I want- all day n all night.
4) It gives you time to pursue your interests. I have started painting n sketching more often now.
5) It teaches you how to enjoy by yourself. It teaches you how you can make yourself happy.
6) Recently(from today, to be more precise), I have started singing loudly, almost shouting (he he). Lets see next tym I meet one of my friends, if I can entertain them or not.
7) Every weekend I go to a new place, meet up with different people. N the best part is nobody asks me where r u going, with whom r u going, wen will u come come back, etc etc. (maybe because my parents trust me enuf n moreover I do tell them where I am going, so that they are not too worried. See I am a good kid.)
Points to remember (if you ever plan to stay the way I do):
1)Make sure that the cook is good. A bad meal means a bad day.
2) Make sure u have a lot of interests, only then ca u keep urself busy.
3) U should basically be a loner.
4) U should have at least one good friend with whom you can talk whenever u want to (2 a.m or 5 a.m he/she should be available).
5) Try staying like this only if you r not scared of the dark n you don't believe in ghosts and spirits.
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ReplyDeleteJasleen Kaur...
yeah yeah maybe someday... when im proficient enuf!! lol
ReplyDelete"Jealous"..."Superjealous"
ReplyDeletehehe... dont be so jealous... everything has a downside too!! lol!!
ReplyDeleteU missed the Most Important point about staying alone.. Its just the foundation for sense of Own Self... it promotes imagination/creativity and you have never-ending oppurtunity to meet and explore Yourself!
ReplyDeleteIn osho's words -
" The capacity of being alone is the capacity of being loved"
i totally agree with u... (but isn't the whole post abt that only "foundation of own self... promoting creativity...")
ReplyDeletejust being a little curious... who are u (anonymous)?? All I know is that none of my friends are reading Osho!!
Well if u know it ..GR8! What about the people who are sleeping with eyes-wide-open... they need to know the summary of ur post.
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ReplyDeleteNice post... Very rarely people get chance to do what they like.. but you are living life queensize :):)
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